Well another day down. I can see our problems are starting tp take a toll on our marriage. Wonderful. Like I said before, if its not one thing its another. At this point iv pretty much given up on the idea of having any type of christmas for the kids. No biggie, its more important for me to keep a roof over there heads and food in there bellys then a few silly gifts. Besides, gifts arnt what christmas is all about anyway! This year might be good for the kids to get more in touch with the true meaning of christmas! Now if just I could get the other problems sorted out. Sigh...especialy before it kills my mariage. We have had problems in the past so if something dosnt change I know what will happen. Its always some sort of stress or seriuos issues that makes our marital issues pop up.